Today is 3/3/2010 – the day set aside by the Special Olympics, Best Buddies International, and the special-needs community to “Spread the Word to End the Word.”
This is an ongoing campaign to raise the consciousness of society about the dehumanizing and hurtful effects of the word “retard(ed)” and encourage people to pledge to stop using the R-word. You can pledge your support at www.r-word.org.
Who’s with me?
I admit, there was a time when I would casually say, “that’s retarded,” but I had no idea how hurtful that word is. Of course, we realize that most people don’t mean to hurt feelings or offend, but that’s why this campaign is important. It IS hurtful, and it IS offensive. Now, when someone says, “I’m such a retard …” I hear “I’m such a Matthew.” When someone says, “That’s so retarded …” I hear, “That’s so Matthew.” When said in reference to something undesirable, it is an insult – to Matthew and the rest of the special needs community.
This topic is difficult for me to write about, because it is so wrought with emotion – every time I hear the “r-word” dropped in casual conversation, it cuts like a knife to my very core. Please help me bring up my boys in a culture that doesn’t use this word – that doesn’t use my SON as a synonym for “stupid,” “undesirable,” etc.
So, spread the word to End the R-Word! It’s simple – don’t use it yourself, and if you hear it used, simply say, “Hey – that’s really not o.k. I know a beautiful little boy with Down syndrome, and it’s really offensive to say r___ like that.” And, just for today – post it on your Facebook, Twitter, MySpace or whatever you use …
Help us spread the word!
Also – if this topic is important to you, check out the “Oz Squad” blog – it is a group of advocates for Ds committed to (nicely and tactfully) educating those that use the “R-word,” especially high-profile individuals, that it is hurtful, offensive, and wrong. They periodically post “missions” when they need some help from our community to get the job done!
Thanks … from all of us.
Actor John C. McGinley (Scrubs) has a son with Down syndrome, and has actively supported this campaign for years: